Look up the story of the 4 chaplins whom prayed for the safety of the soldiers & sailors sinking in the Alantic Ocean. They scraficed their lives to ensure that those military persons left the ship safely! Don't curse God for Phelps & his congregation actions! Military personnel have often sought God's help in desprate time on need! Chaplins daily prayers have often brought courage thru faith to those in battle & God's anwser to return them safely! God stands on the right of might > pray!